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====Practice progressive methods for helping others, receiving help, and asking for help====

*Groups of 3: two participants interacting face-to-face in the roles of '''client''' and '''coach''' plus one '''observer'''
*During '''four rounds''' the person in the role of '''client''' shares a '''challenge''' he or she is passionate about. 
*While the '''observer''' pays close attention, the '''coach''' responds in a sequence of patterns that is different for each round as follows.

#[https://liberationist.org/listen-to-the-power-of-quiet-people/ <u>Quiet Presence</u>]
#[http://www.umich.edu/~elements/probsolv/strategy/cthinking.htm Guided Discovery]
#Loving Provocation
#Process Mindfulness<Br>

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'''Editor's Note''': With each of the above four personality types, I have offered a link to an article on the net that is a defining essay for each of the '''personality type''' response. [[User:Stan|Stan]] ([[User talk:Stan|talk]]) 10:18, 5 January 2020 (EST)
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WHY? '''Purposes'''

* Change unwanted '''''giving help'' patterns''' that include: premature solutions; unneeded advice; adding pressure to force use of advice; moving to next steps too quickly; trying too hard not to overhelp
* Change unwanted '''''asking for help'' patterns''' that include: mistrusting; not sharing real problem; accepting help without ownership; looking for validation, not help; resenting not getting enough

== Info ==

*[http://www.liberatingstructures.com/16-helping-heuristics/ '''Helping Heuristics''' Field Guide Entry]

[[Category:Is-Liberating Structure]]
[[Category:Is-LS For Individuals]]