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#[https://liberationist.org/listen-to-the-power-of-quiet-people/ <u>Quiet Presence</u>]
#[https://liberationist.org/listen-to-the-power-of-quiet-people/ <u>Quiet Presence</u>]
#Guided Discovery
#[http://www.umich.edu/~elements/probsolv/strategy/cthinking.htm Guided Discovery]
#Loving Provocation
#Loving Provocation
#Process Mindfulness<Br>
#Process Mindfulness<Br>
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'''Editor's Note''': With each of the above four personality types, I have offered a link to an article on the net that is a defining essay for each of the '''personality type''' response. [[User:Stan|Stan]] ([[User talk:Stan|talk]]) 10:18, 5 January 2020 (EST)
'''Editor's Note''': With each of the above four personality types, I have offered a link to an article on the net that is a defining essay for each of the '''personality type''' response. [[User:Stan|Stan]] ([[User talk:Stan|talk]]) 10:18, 5 January 2020 (EST)
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WHY? '''Purposes'''
WHY? '''Purposes'''
* Change unwanted '''''giving help'' patterns''' that include: premature solutions; unneeded advice; adding pressure to force use of advice; moving to next steps too quickly; trying too hard not to overhelp
* Change unwanted '''''giving help'' patterns''' that include: premature solutions; unneeded advice; adding pressure to force use of advice; moving to next steps too quickly; trying too hard not to overhelp
* Change unwanted '''''asking for help'' patterns''' that include: mistrusting; not sharing real problem; accepting help without ownership; looking for validation, not help; resenting not getting enough
* Change unwanted '''''asking for help'' patterns''' that include: mistrusting; not sharing real problem; accepting help without ownership; looking for validation, not help; resenting not getting enough

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(Items in the above list that are marked with an asterisk have my notes in them)

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Practice progressive methods for helping others, receiving help, and asking for help

  • Groups of 3: two participants interacting face-to-face in the roles of client and coach plus one observer
  • During four rounds the person in the role of client shares a challenge he or she is passionate about.
  • While the observer pays close attention, the coach responds in a sequence of patterns that is different for each round as follows.
  1. Quiet Presence
  2. Guided Discovery
  3. Loving Provocation
  4. Process Mindfulness

Editor's Note: With each of the above four personality types, I have offered a link to an article on the net that is a defining essay for each of the personality type response. Stan (talk) 10:18, 5 January 2020 (EST)


WHY? Purposes

  • Change unwanted giving help patterns that include: premature solutions; unneeded advice; adding pressure to force use of advice; moving to next steps too quickly; trying too hard not to overhelp
  • Change unwanted asking for help patterns that include: mistrusting; not sharing real problem; accepting help without ownership; looking for validation, not help; resenting not getting enough

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